MONROE Marion
Born Marion Otis Elmer.
Date of birth
: October 6, 1904, Los Angeles (,
).
Date of death : disappeared on November 20, 1929. Declared dead in 1955.
Profession mechanic, driver.
* 1904 : 2511 Folson Street, Los Angeles
* 1912 324 bis South Hill Street, Los Angeles
* 1916 26 Westminster Avenue, Venice
* 1917 : 1410 Coral Court, Venice ()
Story
Brother of Gladys Baker.
Between 1903 and 1909, they lived in not less than 11 houses and furnished apartments.
In 1908
Otis behaviour and health deteriorated with an alarming suddenness. His
memory became capricious, his answers often irrelevant, he suffered
from violent headaches and his dress became more and more neglected.
Fits of rage which frightened Della and the children, alternated with
tears crisis and he soon had violent shaking, sometimes followed by
attacks.
Summer 1908 Otis became half-paralysed.
In November 1908 he entered the Southern California State Hospital, in Patton (San Bernardino County). A general paresis was diagnosed, final level of nervous syphilis (the treatment of this illness was only discovered in 1908).
This would mean that, in opposition to many interpretations, his mental illness was due to an incidental pathology and not to a hereditary illness.
Della often visited him at the hospital but only during the first months.
Then, he sank into a complete dementia; he didn't recognize her anymore.
Because she had to provide for her family, she had started to work.
On July 22, 1909, whitout having left his hospital bed for 9 months, Otis died. He was aged 43.The family settled in Graves's house, located 324 bis South Hill Street, in the new part of the Los Angeles business district.
For Christmas 1912 she went back to Graves home, apparently because she had no more resources.
But despite the gifts Lyle gave to the children, the reconciliation didn't last long.
Graves had even given to Della the management of his own salary.
On January 17, 1914
the divorce was granted.
End of 1916 she hired a room in a familiy hotel, 26 Westminster Avenue in Venice (California, south of Santa Monica).
She sent her son Marion, aged 11, to live at her cousins home in San Diego; Della thought that a boy should be raised by a man.On May 22, 1920, request for a change of his certificate of birth since he appeared under the name of Otis
Elmer Monroe while he had always been called Marion ().
On September 20, 1924 he married Olive (Olyve) Lavena (Lavina) Brunings (March 6, 1905,
Oregon-December 1st, 1988, California)(), in San Diego
.
They lived for 5 years in Salinas, north of California.
* John Otis Elmer (Jack)(January 29, 1925, California-December 29, 2009, North Carolina (,
* Ida Mae (or Ida May) (March 21, 1927, California-after 1995, California)()
* Olive Elisabeth (February 11, 1929, California-2003, Washington)().
1928, El Segundo Beach
Olyve,
Gladys and their daughters ,
On November 20, 1929, around 2.00 PM, he left his home to go to work, and told his wife he would be back around 5.30 PM, as usual; but he never came back and nobody heard about him any more.
The Bureau of Missing Persons didn't find his trail and the local police didn't even manage to retrace his itinerary of this afternoon.The California Motor Vehicle Department of Sacramento, having been contacted by Olive, was yet powerless, and also the police from the 4 nearby States.
Marion hadn't contact any of the members of his family, including Gladys, informed the following day of the disappearence.Ida Martin, his mother-in-law, contacted a detective agency, the Shayer Detective Service of Los Angeles; but 3 years of researches didn't produce any clue.
In 1935, his wife Olive, "with no resources and needed the help of the State", as she mentionned it in the official forms, started the legal procedure so that her husband would be declared dead
Thus, her 3 children, considered as fatherless, could receive a social fund help (the laws allowing help to separated parent changed a lot later; this procedure, at that era, was Olive's only resort).
But she had to wait that a man was declared missing for 10 years so that the State considered him as dead. Before this end, the family had to wait without any help from the State.
He was officially declared dead in 1955.
On December 7, 1963, Olive married Ivan K.Saltzman (1902-1975)(under the name of Olyve L.Monroe), in Clark County, Nevada.