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DIMAGGIO Joe

 

Joseph Paul DiMaggio.

Date of birth : November 25, 1914, Martinez, North California.

Date of death : March 8, 1999, in his home of Hollywood, Florida. Buried in Colma, California.

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Addresses 

* 40's : 400 West End Avenue, San Francisco.

* 1940 : Central Park West 108, New York ()

* Fall 1952 : 2393 Castilian Drive, Outpost Estates, Hollywood Hills (renting with Marilyn)

* Beginning of 1954 : 2150 Beach Street, Marina District, San Francisco (with Marilyn) ,

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* 1954 : 508 North Palm Drive, Beverly Hills (renting with Marilyn).

* 60's : 5030 Alzada Drive. La Mesa, California.

* New York City : 860 Fifth Avenue, New York. Tél PL 54 400.

* Miami : 5151 Collins avenue, Miami.

* Hollywood, Florida : 1141 Waterside Lane.

 

Story 

Parents Sicilian immigrants, arrived in the USA at the beginning of the 20th century.

His father, Giuseppe ("Zio Pepe")(August 22, 1872, Sicily-May 3, 1949, California) (,

,), was a crab fisherman .

After a bad start in a village on the Atlantic Coast, the family settled down in San Francisco in 1915.

His boat's name was Rosalie, from the name of his wife, Rose (February 5, 1878, Sicily-June 18, 1951,

California), (;), and was moored at North Beach.

Joe was the 8th child in a family of 9 children (Thomas, Michael (dead by drowning in Bodega Bay, North San

Francisco, May 30, 1953), Vincent, Dominic(,), Frances, Mamie, Marie, Nellie).

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He brought up in a practising Catholic family, where the important values were piety, honesty, sacrifice, discipline and work, and where the children activities fitted with the devotion towards the family, the school work and the regular presence at the St Peter and Paul Catholic Church.

DiMaggio's parents constantly insisted on their children about the importance of good manners and honest work, and the necessity not to be exploited. Nobody would judge the DiMaggios unworthy of working in the most important domains in the USA.

Between the age of 6 and 8, he was rather a withdrawn boy, who felt different from the others because of the heavy orthopaedic system he worn to correct an ankles congenital difformity.

This experience had important consequences, because this helped him to understand suffering and exclusion, familiar feelings to Marilyn during the years spent at the orphanage. More, it strengthened his little boy personality and also his decision to excel, whatever the sport chosen.

As soon as he was able to run, he played base-ball as much as he could, with his two closest brothers Vincent and Dominic.

Born just before and just after him, they already talked about becoming professional players, what they did.

At the age of 14, the base-ball team in which he used to play, won the championship, thanks to him.

 

He didn't attend high school; he left school at the age of 16, in 1930, to work in an orange juice bottle-filling factory, to help financially his family.

At this age, he had already reached the adult size and even if he was very thin (he didn't exceed 76 Kg), he was strong and naturally elegant.

On week-ends and during his free time, he played base-ball on the parking lot.


At the age of 18, in 1932, he attracted attention and signed a contract with the San Francisco Deals team. He crushed the West Coast records being a hitter in 61 games without being out.

He quickly rose through the grades of fame and in 3 years, he practically became a national hero.

Aged 22, in 1936, he joined the New York Yankees; he would play there during 15 years, until 1951.

He was the youngest base-ball star, and earned a significant salary. His earnings came to 15 000$; he spent the most part to settle his family in a confortable house in Beach Street.

He also purchased a seafood restaurant to his parents, the "Joe DiMaggio's Grotto" (245 Jefferson Street,

Fisherman's Wharf, San Francisco)(,,,

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His friend Reno Barsocchini ran the restaurant.

Hardly aged 20, he had already obtained the Best Player Prize. Off the ground, he had a star life, was adulated as a movie star and used to patronize the popular night-clubs, surrounded by pretty women, having an easy and rowdy life. He worn very expensive suits, drove a Cadillac and was seen in San Francisco as well as in New York City with very pretty music-hall girls.

Aged 22, he had become a popular hero (in an era when America, which still suffered from the Crisis consequences, desperatly needed idols and models), admired by the men, adulated by the pupils, desired by the women; he was a powerful, quiet man, whose unruffled behaviour on and off the field made him more attractive.

Joe was a serious player, honest and respectful.

In 1937, after he had been elected "The Best Dressed Man in the Whole Country", he played a little part in the movie "Manhattan Merry-Go-Round". The cast included a music-hall dancer named Dorothy Arnolds.

On November 19, 1939, he married Dorothy Arnolds (,;-

,) at the St Peter and Paul Catholic Church of San Francisco.

 

Joe announced to the press that they would live in San Francisco during winter and on the Yankees road during the base-ball season.

He wanted a wife who would devoted herself to the family, like his mother and sister; but Dorothy wanted to make a career. From the start, the young couple had to reach a compromise.

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1940 : during the base-ball season, the couple rented a luxury apartment in Manahattan, on West End Avenue.

Soon, Dorothy complained to the people around her, that Joe was out almost every night, in sports clubs or at the restaurant with friends, a habit that he didn't consider to change when Dorothy was pregnant at the beginning of 1941.

On October 23, 1941, birth of Joe DiMaggio Jr ().
 

Christmas 1941 ,,,

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In 1941, he won 56 runs in 56 games in a row, establishing a non-beaten record. The Yankees won the "Pennant" and the worldchampionship.

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In 1942 his paddle average fell and he quit base-ball at the beginning of 1943; as part of the war effort, he enlisted in the Air Force.

Posted to the physical training units control, he served on the base-ball fields in California, New Jersey and Hawaii, and spent a large part of his time at the hospital where he was treated for a stomach ulcer.

He returned to base-ball at the end of the war.

1944 : ,

May 12, 1944 : Dorothy obtained the divorce but kept good relations with him.


During the games seasonal breaks, he lived with his family in San Francisco; during the sports season, he stayed in the best hotels in New York City and spent the evenings with his friends, most of the time in a men's private club, the Toots Shor's. 
There, was a friendly male chauvinist atmosphere. Most of the conversations beat around sports, girls and newspapers humourous pages. Among the clients, over the years appeared Babe Ruth and Jack Dempsey,  Damon Runyon and Ernest Hemingway, reporter Bob Considine and George Solotaire, a chubby and loquacious guy who managed a show agency, the Adelphi Theater. This one provided tickets for Joe and obtained him the dates he wanted with some pretty girls. Lefty O'Doul and George Solotaire were Joe's long-time friends.

October 1st, 1949, à New York

1949 : after a heel surgery, he sank into a deep nervous breakdown, from which he came out more taciturn and unsociable than ever, and even more determined to prove his value.

He get over it by going back to his career with a result that placed him among the biggest records : he scored 114 points in 139 games in 1950.

His mother Rose died on June 18, 1951 ().

Summer 1951 : he suffered from repeated injuries which weakened his forces.

September 1951, with Marlène Dietrich .

December 1951 : he retired, victim of many sport harms : arthritis, heels bony ergots, calcium deposits in the elbow of the arm he used to throw the ball, and a stomach ulcer.

On December 13, 1951 : he signed a new contract to present a TV show in New York City, before and after the Yankees games (a work whose shyness was hardly suitable). He was paid 50 000$ and his anchor part gave him an income more than confortable until the end of his life.

During his career he had become a base-ball star; nicknamed the "Yankee Clipper", he was the first player whose annual salary was composed of 6 numbers and who had led his team 10 times to the USA Championship and 8 times to the World Championship.

He had reached some records hard to beat; his record in 1941 where he hit in 56 following games, has never been equalled.

The New York Yankees, in his honor, removed the number 5 the year following his departure.

After having seen a picture of Marilyn posing with 2 players of the Chicago White Sox, Joe Dobson and Gus

Zernial (),he wanted to meet her. He asked one of his Toot's Shor's friends, David March, to introduce him to her.

The date took place in March 1952 in the Italian restaurant Villa Nova (), on Sunset Boulevard, Los Angeles.

 

At that time she was a star, aged 25, about to make a big career. He had been famous during more than 15 years, and in this regard, mistrusted the opportunists.

He called Marilyn every day after their first date, and Marilyn agreed to go out with him. Soon they became the most famous couple, whose love story was fueled by the paparazzi who tracked them down.

He visited Marilyn on the last day of the shooting of "Monkey Business" (1952) 

 

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She often travelled to New York in order to spend the week-end with Joe, who presented a TV show.

Together they went to Joe's favourite places, the Toots Shor's and the Stork Club, and attended base-ball games.

June 1952 : Marilyn stopped in New York before joining the shooting of "Niagara" in Canada, and spent some time with Joe.

Four months after their meeting, Joe introduced Marilyn to his familiy in San Francisco. She was probably very sensitive to the warm domestic atmosphere which reigned at the DiMaggio's home, but also understood what they were expecting from her as a wife.

They spent Christmas 1952 together, at Marilyn's, in Doheny Drive.

Joe didn't much appreciate the idea that his future wife would focused each and every look and fantasy everywhere in the country.

When Joe was about to quit a long public man career, she embarked on the path of the glory she had wanted so much and of which she was proud. He was probably aware that his relationship with Marilyn would be delicate.

While he went after her, DiMaggio was consumed by jealousy which would later end their wedding.

He avoided public appearances : he was away on March 9, 1953 when Marilyn received the "Fastest Rising Star of 1952" and Betty Grable came with her at the "Gentlemen Prefer Blondes" premiere.

He gladly agreed to escort her when she was dressed with elegance, but vanished from the scene when the sexy pictures of Marilyn covered the national press.

On March 4, 1953, they attended the premiere of the play "Call me Madam" at the Fox Ritz Hotel 

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On May 20, 1953, they attended the "Jimmy McHugh's Premiere of Singing Stars" 
at the Ambassador Hotel's

Cocoanut Grove in Los Angeles
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On May 30, 1953, his brother Mike (Michael) fell down from his fishing boat and drowned in the Bodega Bay.

On June 26, 1953 : the day when Mariyn left her prints in front of the Grauman's Chinese Theater, DiMaggio

didn't came but joined her later at Chasen's restaurant ,-,

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Between July 11 and 20, 1953, they spent fews days in Puerto Peñasco, Mexico ;

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August 1953 : he flew to Canada with his friend George Solotaire to join Marilyn on the shooting of "River of No Return", while she had hurt her leg.

Banff Hotel 

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Breakfast ,,,


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Other pictures 

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Despite the scenes prior to their wedding, Marilyn felt that Joe's love and honesty overcame his jealousy. 
To her, he was her sugar daddy, her counseller, her ally against Hollywood egoism and stringency, her "hitter", her "Giuseppe" admired by everyone, adored by a united family and the one who stand firmly by her side.

She confied to friends that her best Christmas was the one of 1952, when Joe suprised her by waiting for her, while he had to spent Christmas with his family. He had decorated her suite of the Beverly Hills Hotel with a Christmas Tree and had prepared some champagne for when she'd come back from the party given at the studio.

He was also the first to urge Marilyn to check through her salary which, even she was on the top of the poster, hadn't increased since she had started at the Fox Studios in 1951.

She began to refuse some projects, like "Pink Tights" that she had to do immediately after "River of No Return".

She wasn't on the set for the first day, and a week later, took a plane to San Francisco to spend the feasts with Joe and his family.

October 11, 1953 -,,


On December 17, 1953, party at Bob Hope's place -,,

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On January 12, 1954, they celebrated Tom DiMaggio's birthday -,

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On January 14, 1954, they got married in an impromptu way, at the San Francisco City Hall (Polk Street)

At the City Hall 

seated 

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portrait 

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Certificate of marriage ,


Wedding ring .

 

Joe wanted to marry Marilyn in church, but John Mitty, the San Francisco archbishop, refused to recognize the validity of his divorce with Dorothy Arnolds, his first wife. So there was just a civil wedding.

They were thinking of it of course, since a little time, but only decided it 2 days before. They wanted a wedding as discreet as possible, and Marilyn informed the studio only an hour before the ceremony. Despite it, more than 100 reporters and journalists invaded the hall and the hallways of the City Hall.

She hadn't any personal guests; only Joe's family and friends attended the ceremony, celebrated by the City

Officer, Judge Charles S.Perry (;).

The ceremony started at 1.48 PM and ended 3 minutes later.

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Joe's best man was Reno Barsocchini; the other guests were Jean and Lefty O'Doul, Tom DiMaggio and his wife

Lee (
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When they left the City Hall, they were plagued by reporters (,-

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then they jumped in Joe's blue Cadillac(,,,

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They had lunch in Monterey, at the Hot Springs Hotel, and despite a reservation at the Mission Inn Hotel, they eventually spent the night at the Clifton Motel, in Paso Robles.

Then, they spent 2 weeks in a house hidden in the mountains (the house of Marilyn's lawyer, Lloyd Wright), outside Idyllwild, near Palm Springs.

Life was as difficult as before the wedding, even if they were both ready to mutual concessions.

Joe was very meticulous, at home as in his business; Marilyn was exactly the opposite. He prefered the quiet life in San Francisco, she needed Los Angeles; he was taciturn and reserved, she was impulsive and prone to scenes; he liked to spend time with his family and friends or spend the evening watching the TV, her, she had gave up the Hollywood parties, and wanted more intellectual satisfactions.

For the first time of her life, she tried to impart her knowledge and literary fondness. She tried to interest Joe to books, from St Exupery to Mickey Spillane and Jules Verne, but he didn't divert himself from his main interest, the television.

On January 29, 1954, they went to the Federal Building in San Francisco, to pick their passports up, in

preparation for their trip in Asia ;,

 

Marilyn being temporarily excluded from the studio, they left to Japan (package tour organized by the

newspaper Yomiuri Shimbun (;- where they were pursued by the press and plagued by the crowd, first in Honolulu, then when they arrived in Tokyo on February 2, 1954.

Departure from San Francisco, January 29, 1954

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Arrival in Honolulu, January 29, 1954 ,,,,,

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Departure from Honolulu, January 30, 1954 

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Arrival in Tokyo, February 1st, 1954, Haneda Airport 

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Arriving at the Imperial Hotel

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The tour was organized in honor of Joe (to celebrate the beginning of the base-ball season)

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But the mass-hysteria which was focused on Marilyn, went on at the hotel (); everybody wanted to see her, so that the couple decided to be seen only in official outgoings.
 

Press conference on February 3, 1954, at the Yomiuri Newspaper Company

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February 4, 1954, party at the Imperial Hotel, organized by the Japanese newspaper "Yomiuri" 

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February 6-7, 1954, Yokohama ,,,-

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February 8, 1954, arriving at Itazuke Airport, Fukuoka ,,,

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Visiting the Itazuke Air force Base, Fukuoka 
     

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February 9, 1954, Fukuoka 

February 11 and 12, 1954, Kobe ,,,,

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February 13, 1954, Hiroshima base-ball stadium ,,,

February 14, 1954, Hiroshima ,-,  


February 15, 1954, Military Hospital, Osaka 


Return from Korea, Oriental Hotel, Kobe ,,,


Others 

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The emperor offered to Marilyn a string of natural pearls made by Mikimoto () (she wore

this necklace the day of her divorce with DiMaggio () and later gave it to Paula Strasberg who would give it to her daughter, who sold it in 1999).

Things went bad when Marilyn accepted an invitation in Korea to visit the American troops. Joe didn't want her to leave.

General John E.Hull who commanded the Army in Asia, sent an invitation to Marilyn for a tour among the American troops in Korea, which represented more than 10 000 men.

She flew with Jean O'Doul (the wife of Frank "Lefty" O'Doul, a friend of Joe) and Walter Bouillet (the officer responsible for the Army entertainments) for a 4-days tour and 10 performances.
 

February 16, 1954, at Itami Airport, before Marilyn's departure to Korea ,;

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She won over the troops in a purple spangled-dress, short and slinky.

She sang "Diamonds are a Girl's Best Friend", "Bye, Bye, Baby", "Somebody Loves Me" and "Do It Again" (softened in "Kiss Me Again" to avoid overexciting an already very enthousiastic public). Everywhere, she was welcomed very warmly.

She'd remember it later as the most happy and regardless experience of her life.
 

Departure from Tokyo, February 23, 1954 

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Arrival in San Francisco, February 24, 1954

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When they returned in California, the couple went through serious difficulties; Joe refused to go with her at the Photoplay prizegiving. So she was escorted by Sidney Skolsky.

Back in Los Angeles, she sorted out her conflicts with the studios, and went back to work.

They were settled in North Palm Drive. As Joe prefered to live in San Francisco, she spent April and March 1954

in the DiMaggios house, on Beach Street ;

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She appreciated the family life and the rides on the "Yankee Clipper", Joe's yacht; but it is reported that Joe's temperament often gained the upper hand and that he was violent. He pursued his efforts to prevent Marilyn from public appearances.


August 1954 : the extremely small costume and the final choregraphy of the unbridled "Heat Wave" in "There's No Business Like Show Business" made him so angry that he left the set, fulmining of jealousy and rage.
Despite his protests, the scene was kept.

He soon found another reason to be jealous, because there was a rumor about Marilyn having an affair with her musical director, Hal Schaefer.

September 1954

In the beginning of September 1954, they met again in New York City where Marilyn had to start the shooting of

"The Seven Year Itch" 


On September 12, 1954, they had dinner at El Morocco 

leaving the St Regis Hotel

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at the El Morocco

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On September 13, 1954, they attended a representation of "Teahouse of The August Moon" in New York 

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Joe attended the shooting of "The Seven Year Itch" ;,,-

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The decisive turning point happened the day where the reporter Walter Winchell persuaded Joe to join the crowd of many hundred busybodies who were waiting for hours, in a New York street corner, to finally see Marilyn's pleated skirt flying off, revealing her legs, above a subway entrance. Joe became in mad rage and immediately went back to the hotel. When Marilyn returned, they had a violent altercation.

The went back to Los Angeles, on September 16, 1954 ,-,

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Joe quickly returned in New York for his TV shows, the "World Series".

When he went back on October 2, 1954, Marilyn announced him that she broke up an 8 months and 13 days common life, and that she had contacted her lawyer to begin a divorce procedure.

On October 4, 1954, Harry Brand, the Fox publicity agent, announced that the couple would divorce by mutual consent.

The North Palm Drive house was plagued by photographers and reporters. Marilyn was with her doctor, Leon Krohn and her lawyer Jerry Giesler, Joe was watching TV in the cellar.

On October 6, 1954 : Marilyn and Jerry Giesler announced to the press, in front of Marilyn and DiMaggio's house in Beverly Hills, that a divorce procedure had begun.

Joe left the house at 10.00 PM with his friend Reno Barsocchini. From his car he declared to the reporters that he was leaving Los Angeles and would never come back again 

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He didn't consider the divorce procedure as the end of their relationship; he thought he could regain Marilyn and that she only suffered from bad influences. The day before their first official summoning, prior to the divorce, he tried a last attempt, called Sidney Skolsky for help and tried to convince Marilyn to change her mind. But she didn't.

On October 7, 1954, Joe gave a press conference in San Francisco ,

On October 27, 1954, Marilyn appeared in front of judge Orlando H.Rhodes.

She would tell to the judge : "Your Honor, my husband was sometimes in a so bad mood that he stayed without talking to me during 5 days even 7 days in a row. Sometimes even more. I asked him : what's wrong? No answer (...). He forbade me to have some visits; during 9 months, I've only received my friends 3 times (...). Most of the time, he only showed me coldness and indifference".

Joe stood apart from the debates. Marilyn obtained a temporary divorce () for the following official reasons :

"From the beginning of their marriage, the defendant showed towards the plaintiff a great mental cruelty, causing thereby serious psychological sufferings, and a big anxiety, every acts and behaviors of the defendant couldn't be imputed to the plaintiff, so the defendant is guilty to have caused the mental dsitress of the plaintiff, her sufferings and her anxiety".

Less than 2 weeks after this first audience, Joe thought that the private detectives (Philip Irwin and Braney Ruditsky) he had hired to spy on Marilyn had discovered interesting things. They had followed Marilyn several times at the same adress, 8122 Waring Avenue, Sheila Stuart's apartment, student and friend of Hal Schaefer.

Sick with jealousy, Joe, his detectives, Frank Sinatra (who would later deny his presence) and some of their athletic buddies, came by force in the apartment to catch Marilyn red-handed and teach her lover a lesson, but

they forced the wrong door (). This story remained in the memories as the "Raid on the wrong door" and a complaint was registered by the apartment's owner.

But despite months of important stress and a divorce, Marilyn and Joe still saw each other.

He visited her on November 8, 1954, when she was hospitalized at the Cedars of Lebanon Hospital -

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One thinks that he spent the night with her at her hotel on Christmas 1954 and was one the rare people to know that she had left Hollywood.

On January 1955, he came and picked her up at the hotel where she stayed with Milton Greene, in Boston, Massachusetts, to spend 5 days at his brother's home, in Wellesley, Massachusetts.

On January 25, 1955, they had dinner with Joe's brother, Dominic and his wife Emily 

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She regularly asked him some advices, listened to him and followed his guiding, notably when he advised her to renegociate her contract with the Fox Studios.

End of January 1955, he learned his election at the Base-ball Hall of Fame ;,

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On February 26, 1955, Jackie Gleason's birthday, at Toot's Shor 


with Jackie Gleason  ,,,          

with Toot's Shor  ,,

DiMaggio and Marilyn

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On March 30, 1955, party at the Madison Square Garden ,-

Party at El Morocco, 1955 . 

On June 1st 1955, he went with her at the premiere of "The Seven Year Itch" 

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After the divorce, Joe kept working for his TV shows and training the New York Yankees during winter, then

found a job as vice president of an Army supplies company, the Valmore.H.Monette Corporation ().

He earned an annual salary of 100 000$. His work consisted in serving as the company ambassador, visiting miltary basis all over the world, and presiding at base-ball games.

Then, he gave a party in her honor at Toot's Shor, which was a flop, because Marilyn's anger spoiled the party.

On October 31, 1955 : Judge Elmer Doyle granted the definitive divorce (), in favor of Marilyn, for the motive of mental cruelty.

He would never marry again but, in 1957, he had a serious affair with Marian McKnight, Miss America 1957 

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Marilyn and Joe didn't meet again but stayed in touch together. He was present when she  needed help.

In 1961, she called him in a big distress condition, from the psychiatric department of the Payne Whitney Hospital, New York City, where Dr Marianne Kris had made her interned for a rest cure.

He took a plane from Florida and demanded that she got out of the psychiatric ward. Marilyn was brought back by Ralph Roberts to her apartment, where Joe was waiting for her.

He made her transfered at the Columbia Presbyterian Hospital where she stayed from February 17 to March 6 1961.

He stayed with her every day.

She arrived in Florida on  March 22, 1961; he took her to the Yankees training camp, then to the seaside resort in Redington Beach, Florida, in order that she took rest.

At the Tides Motor Inn 

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Yankees camp

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Redington Beach

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Walk on the beach  

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Other 

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Tampa International Airport to New York City April 1, 1961  

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April 11, 1961, the New York Yankees game versus the Minnesota Twins at the Yankee Stadium, New York City 

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Invoice dated June 1, 1961, from Goldfarb Flowers, for Marilyn's birthday

June 28, 1961, Marilyn was hospitalized at the Polyclinic Hospital in New York, and Joe accompanied her 

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Telegram from Marilyn dated September 22, 1961 

He was also present after her divorce with Arthur Miller and helped her to set her stuff in orders.

After her return to Los Angeles, they spent Christmas 1961 and the New Year's Eve together, in Marilyn's apartment, North Doheny Drive.

As in 1953, he brought some champagne and caviar and a Christmas Tree. When he wasn't abroad for professional reasons, he used to visit her in Los Angeles.

He also helped her, at the beginning of 1962, to settle in her house of Fifth Helena Drive.
 

In 1961 they saw each other at least once in June and twice in July, or for a private dinner either to do some shopping or bicycle riding.

According to Donald Spoto, they also met secretely at the end of July at the Cal Neva Lodge, cause they planned to remarry.

At this time, she had ordered a dress at Jean-Louis, according to Spoto, bound to this wedding.

On February 21, 1962, DiMaggio accompanied Marilyn at the Miami Airport, where she left to Mexico 

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Telegram dated June 1, 1962 sent by Joe for her birthday 


On August 1, 1962, he quit his vice president job at the Valmore Monette.

Milton Rudin informed him about Marilyn's death; he was then in San Francisco. He took a United Airlines flight and arrived in Los Angeles on Monday, August 6. He stayed suite 1035 at the Fairmont Miramar Hotel.

The day after her death, one discovered, folded in her address book, the draft of a letter designed for Joe : 

"Dear Joe, 

If only I could manage to make you happy, I would have achieved the most beautiful and hardest thing in the

world : make a person completely happy. Your happiness is my happiness, and...".

He was in charge of her funerals with Milton Rudin (), sent announcements, organized the ceremony and asked Marilyn's half-sister, Berniece Miracle, to help him. He sat Marilyn's body up, the day before the funeral at the Westwood Village Mortuary.

The funerals, August 8, 1962  

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After the funerals, he passed the word on to a flower shop, the Parisian Florists, to lay down a long-stemmed

red rose on Marilyn's grave twice a week, as a testimonial of his fidelity .

After 20 years, in Marilyn's memory, Joe donated to a children charity because he thought that she would be happy if he'd honored her memory this way.

He always kept a respectful silence about his common life with Marilyn; he is the only person not to have written a book about her, even if, regularly, some rumors had spread, according which he was actually writing one, but that he wanted it to be published only 50 years after his death.

He lived a period of retirement with the same elegance like the one he used to play base-ball with. Except a few appearances for coffee marks, he completely disappeared from public life.

Letter from Inez Melson dated September 6, 1962 : .

He died in his house in Florida, on March 8, 1999, 5 months after a lung cancer surgery ().

His son, Joe DiMaggio Jr, who hadn't seen his father for years, attended his funeral on March 11, 1999, and bore

his father's casket (,,,,

,,) along with Joe Sr's sons-in-law Roger Stein and James Hamra, Joseph DiMaggio, son of his deceased brother Mike, Joe Nachio, one of his older friend, ans Morris Engelberg, his friend and lawyer.

He was buried at the Holy Cross Cemetery, Colma, California ,

 

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